This week’s Daily Post Weekly Photo Challenge is Atop. I’ve always liked to climb up high and look down. Perhaps it’s because I’m only 5′ 1″ so most of my life is spent looking up 🙂
I took this looking out our hotel room on the 18th floor over Philadelphia, one Sunday morning.
I took this at the top of a waterfall in Letchworth State Park, NY.
This one was looking down from the top of Niagara Falls, NY.
This is my son atop the rocks at Thunder Rocks in Allegheny State Park, NY.
Have a great day from wherever you are atop.
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Do you enjoy a warm cup of tea?
Do you enjoy reading books of mystery and romance?
Then you would enjoy reading Laura Child’s Tea Shop Mystery Series.
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This book series has Theodosia Browning, former advertising executive now owns the Charleston’s Indigo Tea Shop. Theo and the Indigo Tea Shop staff of Drayton,master tea taster, and Haley, college student baker, solve local mysteries. Theo also has an adopted dog, appropriately named Earl Grey, and Jory Davis, a lawyer and sexy love interest.
There are currently 18 books in this series and Laura Child also writes a scrapbook mystery series and the Cackleberry Club mystery series. Check out her website for all her books.
I highly recommend the books, along with a cup of tea and a pet by your side 🙂 Have you read one?
My younger son is in college, so here we go with the dreaded Empty Nest Syndrome. After twenty-five years of diapers, Legos, birthday parties, soccer games, band concerts, family vacations then proms, suddenly all that activity grinds to a halt. No more last minute cookie requests. No more hearing the night before an assignment is due, “Mom, I need a poster board.” And no more sweaty, soccer socks and cleats taken off in the car making my eyes water.
My alma mater, Mercyhurst University, Erie, PA.
I admit, I was the typical mother dropping off the child at college then crying all the way home. I cried whenever I walked past their empty rooms and waited every day for their call or text to make sure they were eating and getting their sleep. But by the time they were home for Christmas and I could see they were healthy, getting good grades and making mature decisions – I forced myself to relax. My husband and I raised two wonderful sons who are confident and will make good lives for themselves.
I don’t have to ‘hover’ over them constantly anymore. I can sit back and enjoy hearing their news and accomplishments and be there whenever they have questions or need a pep talk after a bad day or disappointment.
I’m so proud of them that I can enjoy this time for myself without guilt.
Here are 6 things I would recommend:
- Get a pet or two – If you are feeling unneeded, the best thing to do is to get yourself a pet buddy. Be sure to select the best pet for your lifestyle and that you can commit yourself to the life of that pet.
A couple of weeks ago we adopted these two adorable kitten sisters.
- Take up a hobby – usually with work and all the activities that come with children prevent you from too many hobbies. We’ve all said, ‘That’s something I’d like to try when I have more time.’ Well, now is the time. I have my puzzles, books to write and creating miniatures. I may even get out my cross stitch projects again.
This is my mini beach house I’m currently working on.
- Rediscover your love life – Use this time to rekindle or increase your love life. Weekend trips can feel like mini-honeymoons without all the kids jumping on the beds and demanding supper.
Our romantic weekend home.
- Volunteer or get involved with a charity – find a worthy cause that interests you and then get involved. Volunteer hours at a thrift store, use your accounting talents to help children organizations or serve on the board of a nonprofit cause. Being involved with people and/or children can fill some lonely hours.
- Read more books – With an empty nest, you will have some extra time to read more books. Read in the bathtub without kids yelling outside the door, read in the evening since there is no more homework to do and read on a rainy afternoon before taking a snooze on the couch.
- Go naked whenever you want 🙂 – That’s right, you can now lounge around and do housework totally nude, if you want. As long as you don’t answer the door or dance in front of a large living room window no one will know but you. Revel in your new found freedom.
So, let’s hear from other empty nesters. What keeps you sane during this adjustment period?
This Valentine’s Day my husband and I gave each other two warm hearts – nestled inside two soft, furry bodies with twitchy ears and little noses. That’s right, we gave each other the wonderful gift of adopting two sweet kittens.
This is Quinn…she’s a bundle of energy with a loving purr and the most beautiful soft, gray and white coat.
This is Harley…she is the less brave of the two, with white feet and a more tortoiseshell coat. You have to wait for her to come to you but once she does she will shower you with love.
Their names are separated parts of the word Harlequin. Harley and Quinn. Cute, huh?
Have you rescued/adopted any pets?
Wishing everyone a love-filled Valentine’s Day!
This week’s Daily Post Photo Challenge is all about solitude, enjoying time alone. I not only enjoy my times of solitude, I need solitude to stay sane. To me, everyday life responsibilities are like riding a roller coaster and sometimes you just want a break from it all and get off to recharge your batteries. My times of solitude let me do just that.
I love being in the woods, the more remote the better. It’s like you’ve stepped into a different world. Time slows, you breath deeper and you treasure every minute.
We love to go camping at the state parks. They tend to be more wooded, with more spacious sites than the private campgrounds. Some of our best camping trips were when the park was less crowded. You could pretend all the woods belonged to you and civilization was miles away.
Any other camping-lovers out there? Campers are some of the nicest people we’ve ever met.
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Chinese New Year is coming up on Saturday, January 28th. Get out your chopsticks and green tea to celebrate a tradition centuries old.
Chinese Lion Dance
Some facts about the Chinese New Year Festival:
- The date of the celebration (which could last up to a week) changes each year but it always falls between January 21st and February 20th. The date is determined by the Chinese Lunar calendar.
- Chinese New Year is celebrated in many countries besides China, such as Indonesia, Vietnam, Korea, the Philippines, Macau, Malaysia, etc.
- Chinese New Year has the world’s biggest annual fireworks display to scare away evil spirits. China invented fireworks in the 7th Century and now produces about 90% of the world’s fireworks.
- Some no-no’s of the festival include washing your hair or clothes, in the fear that you will wash away good luck, and sweeping your house because you might sweep away wealth. Any washing, sweeping, cooking and cleaning are done before the festival to start the new year out at your best.
So decorate with red and yellow lanterns, eat some Chinese food and watch a Jackie Chan martial arts movie to entice a little good luck and wealth your way for 2017.
Happy Chinese New Year everyone! (Be sure to let me know which martial arts movie you watch)
If you are interested in Feng Shui, check out these posts: Feng Shui Intuitive Collage and Ten Feng Shui Tips for Love and Romance