This is the first book I’ve read by the best-selling writing duo Christina Lauren and it probably won’t be the last. This book was funny and engaging. I was rooting for Carey and James in the difficult situation in which they find themselves.
2021, still in the grip of the pandemic, calls for a sense of calm and happiness. Maybe we can turn to Greek Mythology to help us.
In Greek mythology, Alkyone was the daughter of Aeolus, the wind god. When she learned that her husband had died at sea, she threw herself into the Mediterranean and was transformed into the beautiful bird called the kingfisher (so romantic!).
Aeolus calmed the sea for his daughter to hatch a brood of eggs on a floating nest.
We now use the phrase, halcyon days, to mean a time of calm and happiness.
In the turbulent days ahead as we change leaders, get vaccinated and remain socially distanced we will be seeking some halcyon days.
Ways to gain calm and happiness:
- Take a walk in nature – breathe in the fresh air, listen to the birds, laugh at squirrel antics…you’ll be surprised how happy you’ll feel.
- Begin feeding birds at home, whether you hang feeders in your backyard or get the ones that suction cup to your windows. Birds can be fascinating to watch. Yellow finches, hummingbirds and woodpeckers are among my favorites.
- Adopt a pet. There’s nothing like pet snuggles and animal antics to make you laugh and love.
- Read a romance novel with a Happily-Ever-After ending.
- Take a long, soaking bath. Add some bubbles or bath salts to soak those worries away.
- Get the whole family in on the happiness by playing a board game. The benefits will include family bonding, healthy competition and laughs among others. My memories include playing Monopoly, Scrabble, Pictionary, Trivia…
What would you add to this list?
What gives you calm and happiness?
I’m currently reading A Gift for Guile (The Thief-takers) by Alissa Johnson…
(Book Blurb – Courtesy of Amazon.com – buy it)
Beautiful and conniving, maddening and brilliant, Esther is everything private detective Samuel Brass shouldn’t want. Esther knows she’s put herself in terrible danger, but nothing will stop her from making amends-not her family’s enemies, not old fears, and certainly not the domineering, interfering, and undeniably handsome former officer of the Scotland Yard. Yet whenever he’s near, Samuel makes her long for a life that can never be hers…and wish she were worthy of being saved.
I’m about halfway through this book and am thoroughly enjoying it. It has rich characters, humor and mystery which are things that grab me right away. To see my Top Ten Book Hooks, check out my previous post here. I would recommend this book to everyone.
Tell me, what are you reading? Have you read A Gift for Guile?
Welcome to another Top Ten Tuesday blog post.
(For info on TTT and to join in, check out That Artsy Reader Girl)
What makes me pick up a book to read?
Title – can’t resist a catchy title. For example: Chose The Wrong Guy, Gave Him the Wrong Finger by Beth Harbison. Love that title 🙂
Cover – I’m a very visual person so I like a colorful cover. One of the best ones I’ve seen is The Azalea Assault by Alyse Carlson (the paperback version). It’s truly a work of art.
Locale – I love to read about far away and exotic places so locales of dreamy islands or Asian countries will grab me (and anywhere in the Carolinas since I’m a newbie Southerner).
Romance – I especially love the enemies to lovers theme with funny banter between the couple while they resist the attraction.
Mystery – I don’t always enjoy books that are only romance. To me they need to include a mystery of some kind (who’s stalking the heroine, who’s stealing company secrets, who murdered the butcher, etc.)
Suspense – Who doesn’t love a little nail-biting suspense? Nothing stirs up those desires better than a little danger to the hero and heroine.
Characters – Of course this is a major element. If you don’t care about the characters you won’t be able to enjoy the story.
Length – This is a lesser element for me except if the book is longer than 350 pages you better have a pace that keeps me turning the pages.
Author – I’m always on the lookout for new authors but with the authors that I know I enjoy, I will definitely try anything they write.
Time period – I enjoy Historical but mainly just in the 1800’s or else the current time period.
So what kind of book hooks grab you?
Time for a Top Ten Tuesday…
That Artsy Reader Girl has a list of topics for Top Ten Tuesday blog posts. Check it out to participate with other book lovers.
My Top Ten Romantic Songs: (in no particular order)
Time of My Life from the movie Dirty Dancing
Lady in Red by Chris de Burgh
Three Times a Lady by the Commodores
Hero by Enrique Iglesias
The Wonder of You by Elvis Presley
Kiss From a Rose by Seal
Killing Me Softly With His Song by Roberta Flack
I Just Called to Say I Love You by Stevie Wonder
Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton
I Knew I Loved You by Savage Garden
There’s tons more — what are a few of your favorites?
2018 is almost done and 2019 is approaching fast.
So, while we are still here in 2018 let’s recap. “In case you missed” any of these…
I thank all my followers and visitors for your support and friendship through 2018.
I hope meet and connect with even more of you in 2019!
Christmas is my favorite holiday, but with all the shopping, activities, parties and baking it can get stressful. That can lead to headaches, arguments with spouses and screaming, “I can’t wait til this is all over!” Don’t let this happen to you. With a little advance planning and patience you can have a really enjoyable and fun holiday which includes special time for spouses.
7 Ideas To Keep Christmas Merry For Couples:
- A Sexy Stocking filled with adult goodies and coupons promising fun when cashed in by your spouse. The Dating Divas have a kit with instructions and ideas to help.
- A Midnight Toast for you and your spouse just as Christmas Day begins before all the celebrating starts. Even a few minutes of telling each other how special they are and toasting your love can make the holiday season extra special.
- Decorate your bedroom with Christmas Lights to create a romantic mood.
- Relax with a few Romantic Movies and snuggle together. Here are two sites to give you ideas: 15 Most Romantic Movies and 13 Best Hallmark-Style Romantic Christmas Movies On Netflix.
- Give each other Matching Christmas Pajamas.
- Celebrate the 12 Days Of Christmas by giving each other 12 small, loving gifts.
- Last but not least — hang Mistletoe in the house so you can kiss every time you pass it. You could always hang some in your bedroom too for more intense kissing 🙂
Check out a few of my past Christmas posts:
Be sure to check out The Dating Divas website for lots of great dating and relationship ideas!
I love the monthly newsletter, BookPage, that I pick up at my local library. It shows me the new books, interviews & reviews. On their website you can find even more.
We’ve already rounded up our favorite romances of the year so far, but hark! Autumnal challengers have appeared on the horizon! (Not to say we make books engage in death matches here at BookPage. Only metaphorically.)
Magic Triumphs by Ilona Andrews Ace • August 28 We think we’re ready for the final book in Andrews’ beloved Kate Daniels series, which follows…
I’ve just recently discovered this gem of a blog. Highly recommend to other romantics 🙂 Thanks Ari.
Life is hectic.
Life is busy.
Life is crazy, but does that mean there’s no room for romance? Absolutely not.
However, you know the average man is not naturally romantic. (Remember “Wham, bam, thank you Ma’am?”) They generally consider romance just fluff before you get to the good stuff. So, you’ll have to let him know how important it is to you.
(I’m not talking about every man. There are some out there that are truly Romance Masters. I applaud them. This post is about the average Joe, clueless about romance.)
Let’s face it. Most of you gals have probably spent years throwing out little hints about how to be more romantic without much success. Well, if you haven’t figured it out yet, I’ll lay it out for everyone.
Hints Do Not Work On Guys
You have to use a 10 lb. sledge-hammer to get their full attention. Of course, that is not a literal suggestion but you do have to stop being subtle about this concept. Get your man away from any distractions (TV, cars, friends, food, etc.) and talk to him about what you what. Be sure to make it a conversation not a confrontation or you won’t get anywhere.
Give him a few examples of what romance means to you. Then hand him a list of about four or five simple examples because you know he won’t remember the conversation past the next car show on TV or round of golf.
Some examples you could include in your list:
- Holding hands while walking
- Evening walks together where kids, finances and work are off-limits to discuss.
- Foot rubs
- Breakfast in bed
- Bubble baths together
- A soothing cup of tea or glass of wine
- Chocolates and flowers
The possibilities are endless. Come up with things that appeal to you.
Good luck and be patient with your budding-Romance Master.
Tell me some of the things on your romance list…